When to Speak and When to Be Still (Online)
First Wives Conversations
When to Speak and When to Be Still
Disagreements are a part of marriage, but how we respond in those moments can reveal a lot about what's happening beneath the surface.
Sometimes we speak from frustration before we've had time to process what we're feeling. Other times, we hold things in because we're unsure how to express ourselves, or whether it's better to say anything at all. So how do we know when to speak, when to pause, and how to approach difficult conversations with both honesty and grace?
Join us for an online conversation about what happens in our hearts during disagreements, how we communicate with our husbands, and how our faith shapes the way we respond.
We'll reflect on what it means to be slow to speak and quick to listen, while making room for the importance of expressing ourselves honestly. This isn't about avoiding conflict or getting every response right, but learning to approach our conversations with greater wisdom, understanding and care.
Come ready to reflect, share as you're comfortable, and learn alongside other wives navigating these questions, too.
Date: Wednesday 18 November 2026
Location: Online
Time: 19:00-21:00
A little about First Wives
First Wives is a faith-rooted community for Christian women n their early years of marriage (0–5 years) navigating marriage in real time. We create space for honest conversations, shared experiences and growing in our understanding of God, ourselves and marriage — together.
Limited to 10 women to keep the conversation intimate. RSVP Required.