

The Things We Carry
National Sober Day deserves a celebration, so we’re bringing together everything we love about a Heartbutter night: really good drinks, new people, something sweet, and a conversation worth having.
Join us September 14 for The Things We Carry, an evening celebrating what it can look like to go out, unwind, connect, and have a genuinely good time without alcohol at the center of it.
🥂 Sip: Non-alcoholic drinks from De Soi + Little Saints
🍪 Snack: Something sweet from Antojo Baked Goods
🛍️ Shop: Connection Is Cool apparel + merch available throughout the night
We’re making meeting people easy, too. We’ll kick things off with a fun group icebreaker and plenty of time to mingle before settling in for a candid conversation with Matt of Overflo Studios and Sam Hoggs of In Due Time Coffee about their relationships with alcohol, community, connection, and some of the things we all carry.
And no, you don’t have to be sober to come. Whether you’re sober, sober-curious, cutting back, or just interested in experiencing a different kind of night out, there’s a seat for you.
Come for the drinks, stay for the conversation, and leave with a new connection (or two)!