Open to All Couples | Date Night Workshop
One evening to stop having the same fight and actually feel the difference in your body, together.
📅 November 6pm – 9pm PT
· Live on Zoom
· Free
👫 Both partners attend together, with cameras on, from a private space
✨ Limited to 6 couples so everyone gets real attention
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This workshop is for couples who love each other but keep hitting the same wall.
🤍 It's for you if you...
Want more connection, not more conflict-resolution scripts
Wonder why your body reacts before your mind even catches up
Tried "communication tips" that didn't stick, because the real issue lives underneath the words
Want a night that's actually fun and actually moves the needle
Feel spiritually open or curious, and believe in something greater than you
You don't need to be in crisis. You don't need years of therapy behind you. You just need to show up, together.
💓 WHAT WILL YOU GET?
This isn't a lecture. It's an experience.
Meet your Adaptive Child and your Wise Adult. Your Adaptive Child is the part of you running old survival patterns. Your Wise Adult is the part of you that can actually show up for your relationship the way you want to.
Feel it in your body. Through a live, in-the-body process using a bit of constellations-style work (don't worry, it's simple and safe), you'll each track what happens in your nervous system when old patterns get triggered, and what shifts when you step into your Wise Adult instead.
This isn't theory. You'll feel it happen in real time.
💌 BY THE END OF THE NIGHT, YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH:
A felt sense of what triggers you (and your partner), not just a concept
A simple tool to catch yourselves mid-pattern and choose differently
A shared language for talking about the parts of you that get activated
One genuinely fun, connecting evening together
🕰 THE EVENING
6:00 – 6:20pm · Welcome and body-oriented grounding
6:20 – 8:20pm · Experiential activities and sensory experiences
8:20 – 9:00pm · Takeaways and how to keep the momentum going
🎁 Stay until the end: Couples who stay through closing get a free 60 minute Relationship Pattern Map session with Luana.
WHAT COUPLES ARE SAYING
"We've tried the best of the best in marriage counselling and even sat with the founders of highly reputable therapy approaches, and they haven't got us the results we've gotten with Luana. One reason it's different is because she includes our bodies and adaptive knee-jerk responses, which those other modalities leave out. She's truly gifted at what she does."
~ Cindy & Phil, Florida
"We tried couples therapy before and didn't get anywhere, so we were skeptical, but this was different. The somatic work and nervous system focus helped us get to the root of our issues and really understand what our minds and bodies actually do when we're both flooded. For the past 3 weeks, my partner has stepped up in ways I didn't even imagine, and I actually feel hopeful for the first time in a long time. The skills we learned that weekend are making a difference for our whole household."
~ Toni & Evan, Arizona
"Working with Luana has absolutely transformed our relationship! We sought her out after hearing Terry Real talk on a podcast about 'normal marital hatred' and wanted to work with someone who shares that honest, growth-minded approach. Doing counselling together created a level of vulnerability, accountability, and teamwork that feels incredibly powerful. Luana brings a balance of fierce compassion while holding us accountable to patterns that no longer serve us, and helps deepen the security, openness and connection in our relationship."
~ Christi & Jake, British Columbia
"I highly recommend engaging Luana to facilitate difficult, yet necessary, conversations during trying times in our relationship. I found her to be approachable, a good listener, able to gently but effectively push back when needed, and she really helped shine a light on what is going on in each person and as a couple. If I had to summarize: we got more done in less time than at any time in our lives working with couples professionals."
~ David & Lisa, Vermont
"Luana helped me realize the skills that took me to a high level in my tech career are the exact skills that would end up with my third divorce. Somehow she delivered this news to me in a way that made me trust her more. She helped me see and master the softer skills I need to have a peaceful partnership and be the husband my wife deserves. Everyone needs a Luana in their ear."
~ Mike, Colorado
ABOUT YOUR GUIDE
Luana helps couples rewire the intergenerational patterns that keep them stuck, so what gets passed down is connection, not just coping.
She's a certified Relational Life Therapy Coach and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner who has supported over 2,000 people around the world in building healthier, more connected relationships. For over a decade, she's helped clients regulate their nervous systems so they can show up differently, not just understand differently.
Outside of her practice, Luana starts her days at the ocean, where she checks in with her ancestors, and spends as much time as she can on the tennis court with her partner and pup.
Please Note:
By participating in this workshop, you acknowledge and agree to the following terms:
No Guarantees: The guide provides guidance and advice based on personal experience, but results may vary. There are no guarantees of specific outcomes.
Personal Responsibility: Participation is voluntary, and you are solely responsible for your actions, decisions, and well-being. Any decisions made following the workshop are at your own discretion.
Limit of Liability: The coach and any associated parties are not liable for any damages, losses, or injuries arising from participation in this workshop, whether directly or indirectly.
Confidentiality: By participating, you agree not to share personal content or information from the session without consent.
No Substitute for Professional Help: This workshop is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. If you require such assistance, please consult a qualified professional.
By attending, you agree to release the coach and associated parties from any liability or claims arising from your participation.