RADIANCE - Christian Singles Event Across NJ Hosted by CIT
An Intentional Evening for Christian Singles Across NJ
Not speed dating. Not another awkward singles mixer.
Just a warm, welcoming evening and several real conversations.
Meaningful relationships rarely happen by accident.
For many Christian singles, they also don't happen easily.
That’s why we've thoughtfully designed the evening so you don't have to worry about who to talk to or how to get started.
Created by the team behind Uncuffed NYC and Rooted NYC, RADIANCE is the first NJ gathering in a growing series of faith-centered events designed to help people build meaningful relationships across communities.
Simply show up, be yourself, and enjoy several real conversations.
“…let your light shine before others…” – Matthew 5:14–16
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TLDR Details:
To attend you need to bring a +1 of the opposite sex. Guys bring a girl, girls bring a guy.
$40 per person. ($80 per pair) Includes:
All the vibes through a carefully programmed evening of spirit-filled connection.
3-4 curated introductions based on shared values, preferences, and life stage. Powered by a faith-based matching app, Valence (https://www.valence.club/)
"White glove" friendly hosts to help you navigate the night.
Delicious light bites, beer/wine and N/A beverages will be served.
Dress code: Elevated casual – come feeling confident, comfortable, and ready to meet people.
Who Should Attend: Christian singles who seek intentional conversations and genuine moments of discovery with believers walking in faith, purpose, and love.
❓ FAQs
Q: Do I have to bring a +1?
Yes. Everyone registers as part of a trusted pair. This helps us maintain balanced attendance, reduce no-shows, and create a room where people arrive through real community connections.
Q: What if I don’t have a +1?
Select "Waitlist M/F" ticket and our team will try to pair you with another attendee of the opposite sex. If paired, we'll send an access code to purchase your single ticket.
(Note: Waitlist tickets will not be available until 8/10. We encourage you to find someone before joining the waitlist.)
Men may register with another trusted brother using an M/M ticket.
Q: Why is there a male/male ticket option but not a female/female?
From running events like Uncuffed and Rooted NYC, we know women show up. Maintaining balanced attendance has historically required additional male registrations. The M/M ticket option helps us recruit more men so that when the waitlist opens, the women already on it actually get to attend.
Q: What’s included with my ticket?
Admission for two, 3 to 4 guided introductions powered by our matching platform, guided conversations, light bites and beverages, and a relaxed evening hosted by our volunteer team.
Q: When do I receive the Valence matching questionnaire?
After your registration is approved, you'll receive a separate email with the questionnaire. It must be completed before the event.
Q: What is the age range for this event, and how do I know I'll be matched with people in my age range?
The event is open to singles in their 20s to 40s, with most attendees in their late 20s to mid-30s.
The matching questionnaire you complete after registration will ask for your preferred age range, and your introductions are matched accordingly.
Q: What should I wear?
Elevated casual. Think summer date-night ☀️ not formal, but a chance to show up feeling confident and comfortable.
Q: Is there an after party?
Yes. After the event wraps, we'll be heading to a nearby restaurant for those who want to keep the night going and mingle more.
Any other questions please email DK at dk@startswithdk.com
Photos from past events:
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