Conscious Kink Dance Party
A new kind of nightlife
📅 Saturday, October 3
🕕 18:00–00:00
📍 Near Coin (between Malaga and Marbella)
Possible ride-share
🎟️ Only 50 spots
💃🕺 Gender balance
What you will find below:
Concept
How does it work
Consent
Dress code
Who is it for
Venue
Organizers
FAQ
👠 Concept
Conscious Kink Dance Party is an alcohol-free evening celebrating sensuality, self-expression and conscious connection.
This is a beautifully facilitated social experience where attraction, flirtation and authentic connection can unfold naturally within a culture of clear consent and mutual respect.
Our vision is to build a vibrant community of people who long for a different way of connecting—beyond alcohol, beyond dating apps, beyond superficial nightlife.
Whether you come alone or with friends, you’ll be welcomed into an evening designed to help you feel seen, free and alive.
A FEMALE-LED SPACE 🖤
This event is created and led by 3 women, and the sense of safety is at the heart of how we design the space.
🪩 How does it work
Inspired by kink culture, ecstatic dance and consent practices, we invite you into a playful space where you can embody your sexy side, meet like-minded people and explore connection through dance and facilitated interactions.
This is not a sex party. Please read the FAQ below!
What to expect
✨ Opening Circle & Community Agreements
✨ Introduction to consent, boundaries and communication
✨ Guided connection experiences
✨ Ecstatic Dance journey with an incredible DJ
✨ Dedicated kink spaces for consent-based sensual interactions ✨
cuddle
massage
light BDSM: shibari, spanking, wax play, etc
floral sensory experience
freeform space to offer and receive experiences created in the moment
✨ Plenty of time to dance, flirt, connect and simply enjoy the atmosphere
✨ Beautiful people, music and an unforgettable ambiance
Our Agreements
This is a short version, read the detailed one below!
Respect consent at all times.
Always ask before initiating touch.
“No” is a complete sentence.
No alcohol or recreational drugs.
No nudity or sexual activity.
Respect confidentiality.
Celebrate diversity and authenticity.
👀 Consent
We ask you to bring a conscious presence: approach with respect, ask rather than assume, never initiate touch from behind, look for genuine reciprocity, and respect a NO without persuasion.
We know that entering a kink-inspired event for the first time can feel intimidating.
What will happen there? Will there be sex? Will people touch me? Do I need to participate in kink?
So let us be very clear:
This is NOT a sex party.
There is no sexual activity.
You never have to participate in any kink or touch-based experience.
You can simply come, dress up, dance, meet people and enjoy the atmosphere.
And most importantly:
Your sensuality is NOT consent.
Dressing sexy is not an invitation.
Dancing sensually is not an invitation.
Flirting is not consent.
Being curious about kink is not consent.
Nobody has automatic access to your body.
Touch must be consensual. We teach and practice asking before touching, respecting boundaries and receiving a NO gracefully.
Everything is an invitation. Nothing is expected from you.
You can come alone.
You can be completely new to kink.
You can observe before participating.
You can say YES.
You can say NO.
You can change your mind.
Our intention is to create enough safety for people — especially women — to feel more free in their bodies.
👗👞 Dress Code
It is required to come dressed up. This is your invitation to express your most confident, playful and sensual self. You don´t need to hire a stylist, find references and choose what is more about you.
References: https://pin.it/2IHd4IC1Q (for all genders)
Think:
🖤 Leather
🖤 Lace
🖤 Harnesses
🖤 Mesh
🖤 Corsets
🖤 Elegant lingerie-inspired fashion
🖤 Festival glamour
🖤 Latex (optional)
🖤 Velvet
🖤 Masks, accessories and creative outfits
Come dressed to impress—not for others, but for yourself.
The dress code is part of creating the unique atmosphere that makes this event magical.
✅ Who is this for
You might love this evening if…
• You enjoy Ecstatic Dance.
• You’re curious about conscious kink and sensual self-expression.
• You appreciate clear communication and consent.
• You want to meet open-minded, emotionally aware people.
• You’re looking for a different kind of nightlife.
• You believe sexy doesn’t have to mean unsafe.
🏛️ Venue
We will be at the stunning countryside retreat — a private estate in the mountains by the lake, owned by members of our community.
– Big green territory
– Zones outside and inside (most activities will be inside)
– Photozone
– Rooms to stay overnight
– Natural pools and waterfalls nearby (highly recommended for visiting)
💝 Organisers
Eva Almer
Author of Non-Monogamy Storybook
5 years in kink & BDSM culture
10 years of experience organizing events
Elegance & Aesthetics Geek
Primary senses: visual and smell
Kinks: long female hair and hair pulling
Ania Sundari
Tantra & Intimacy Coach and Facilitator
6+ years exploring Tantra & conscious sexuality
3 years of experience organizing Tantra events & retreats
Pleasure & Conscious Connection Geek
Primary senses: touch and sound
Kinks: power dynamics and role play
DJ Blossom
Music is my channel, my sensual expression through rhythm, vibration and desire. It is my ritual of awakening the senses, surrendering to the body, and exploring the space between pleasure and the unknown. DJing is my language of love and mystery.
Creativity & Pleasure Geek
Primary senses : taste and touch
Kinks : Power plays and Voyeurism
✨ Event Policy
1. Registration & Payment
Your spot is reserved only after full payment (or deposit, if applicable).
Spaces are limited, so we recommend booking early.
2. Refunds & Cancellations
Participant cancellations:
Up to 7 days before the event: refund minus a 10% admin fee (or transfer to another event).
Within 7 days: no refund, but you may gift your spot to a friend (please notify us).
Organizer cancellations:
If we cancel or reschedule, you will receive a full refund or transfer to another event.
3. Pairing & Participation
You may not always be guaranteed a pair; exercises may be done solo, in pairs, or in groups.
Please arrive on time; late arrivals may not be admitted once the temple space is opened.
Events are substance-free: no alcohol, drugs, or mind-altering substances. If we find you are under the influence, we might ask you to leave.
Respect the sacred container: follow consent-based practices and instructions of facilitators.
4. Boundaries & Safety
Consent and boundaries are core values.
Anyone who repeatedly crosses others’ boundaries or ignores facilitator guidance may be asked to leave without refund.
What is shared in the event stays in the event. We ask all participants to respect confidentiality.
5. Health & Responsibility
By attending, you confirm that you are in good physical and emotional health to participate.
You take full responsibility for your experience, choices, and interactions during the event.
FAQ
🖤 What is the Conscious Kink Dance Party?
It’s an alcohol-free evening celebrating sensuality, self-expression, dance and conscious connection. Think somewhere between an ecstatic dance, a sexy night out and a conscious social gathering — with a touch of kink.
We create a space where you can dress up, feel sexy, flirt, dance, meet people and explore connection within a strong culture of consent.
🔥 Is this a sex party?
No. This is not a sex party and there is no sexual activity at the event.
Kink for us is about playful self-expression, sensuality, curiosity, consent and giving ourselves permission to explore sides of ourselves that don’t always have space in everyday life.
👠 Is there a dress code?
Yes! Dressing up is part of the experience.
Yes. The dress code is obligatory and required for entry.
Sexy, sensual, kinky, extravagant, mysterious, glamorous — interpret it in your own way. Harnesses, lace, leather, mesh, corsets, masks, bunny or cat ears, festival outfits, elegant black, lingerie-inspired fashion… get creative.
You don’t need to expose your body. The invitation is simply to make an effort and wear something that makes you feel confident, playful and sexy.
💃 What actually happens during the evening?
We’ll begin together with an opening and introduction to our consent culture, followed by playful guided connection experiences to help everyone arrive, relax and meet each other.
Then we move into dancing, music and free exploration of the space. There will also be areas where you can slow down, connect, cuddle or explore consensual touch.
Participation in every activity is optional.
🤍 Can I come alone?
Absolutely — and we actually encourage it.
You don’t need a partner or a group of friends. The facilitated beginning of the evening is designed to make connecting with new people much easier and more natural.
Our bigger intention is to create a community, not simply throw a party.
🌈 Who is the event for?
For adults of all genders and orientations who resonate with conscious connection, sensuality, dance, self-expression and consent.
You don’t need any previous experience with kink, Tantra, ecstatic dance or conscious events. Curiosity is enough.
⛓️ Do I need to be into BDSM or kink?
Not at all.
You can be completely new to kink. We’re inspired by kink culture — particularly its celebration of self-expression, communication, boundaries and consent — but this isn’t a BDSM workshop or play party.
💋 Can I flirt with people?
Yes! Attraction and flirtation are welcome.
We want to create a space where being sexy doesn’t have to mean being unsafe or having expectations attached to it.
Interest is welcome. Entitlement isn’t.
🫶 Is touch allowed?
Yes, consensual touch is welcome in designated contexts and spaces.
Always ask before touching someone. Never assume that dancing, flirting, an outfit, previous touch or a previous “yes” means consent to something else.
And changing your mind is always allowed.
🚫 What if I don’t want to be touched?
That’s completely welcome too.
You can spend the entire evening dancing and socialising without participating in any touch-based experience.
A clear no is respected — no explanation required.
🍸 Is alcohol allowed?
No. Conscious Kink is an alcohol- and drug-free event.
We want connection, attraction and consent to happen with clarity and presence.
📵 Can I take photos or videos?
To protect everyone’s privacy and freedom of expression, photography and filming are not allowed unless explicitly announced by the organisers in a designated moment or area.
🤝 What is Consent Culture?
Consent Culture means that everyone is responsible for checking for consent before entering another person’s physical or intimate space.
At Conscious Kink, we encourage desire, attraction, flirtation and exploration — while respecting each person’s boundaries.
Consent means:
Ask before touching.
Look for a clear, enthusiastic yes rather than assuming.
A yes to one thing is not a yes to something else.
Consent can be withdrawn or changed at any moment.
Flirting, dancing together or someone’s outfit is never an invitation to touch.
“No” doesn’t require an explanation.
If you’re unsure — ask.
We want everyone to feel free to express their sexy, sensual side precisely because they know their boundaries will be respected.
⚠️ What happens if someone crosses a boundary?
We take consent and safety seriously.
If someone’s behaviour makes you uncomfortable, you can approach one of our organisers or designated space holders at any time.
Depending on the situation, we may speak with the person involved, give a clear warning, stop an interaction, or ask someone to leave the event immediately.
Serious or repeated violations of consent may result in removal from the event without a refund and exclusion from future Conscious Kink events.
Our priority is protecting a culture where people can explore, flirt, dance and express themselves without pressure, entitlement or fear of having their boundaries ignored.
Freedom to explore only works when there is freedom to say no.
🖤 What is the most important rule?
Respect yourself. Respect other people. Ask before you assume.
Come to express yourself rather than impress anyone. Come curious rather than entitled.
And above all:
Dress boldly. Dance freely. Connect consciously.