

The Long Table · Motovun
One table. One question. No small talk.
Friday, 23 October · 17:00–21:00
Motovun, Istria
€49 · drinks & bites included
Limited to 15 women.
The Lady’s Realm is a community of more than 300 women who believe some of the best learning and growth happens through each other.
We bring women together to ask better questions, share what we know and hear perspectives we wouldn’t normally encounter — about work, leadership, creativity, identity and the things changing around us.
Because we think women need more places to be curious together.
Not networking events. Not another panel where four people talk and everyone else listens. And not spaces where you need to arrive already knowing the answer.
Places where you can bring the thing you're thinking about, hear something that changes your mind, meet someone you wouldn't otherwise meet — and leave with more than you came with.
That’s what we’ve been building through our Lady’s Labs, Salons and gatherings in Motovun.
One woman who joined us in Motovun called it:
“A sanctuary where women stop performing.”
Another described it as:
“Being seen and witnessed for me, rather than for my CV.”
Now we’re bringing what we’ve learned to one table.
The Long Table
15 women. One question. No small talk.
And for our first table, the question is:
What would you do differently if you had nothing to prove?
So much of what we do is shaped by who we think we need to impress, reassure, outperform or make proud. What becomes possible when you take all of that out of the equation?
What would you make, change, ask for, walk away from — or finally stop doing?
No presentations. No awkward networking. No name tags and no taking turns explaining what you do for a living.
We’ll bring a question worth talking about, a few provocations to get us started and a deliberately interesting mix of women.
Then we’ll see where the table takes us.
Your hosts
We’re Dina Mehulić and Fransje Schoenmaker, co-founders of The Lady’s Realm.
Dina leads Community & Experiences; Fransje leads Learning & Partnerships. Together, we design experiences around belonging, psychological safety, allyship and female leadership.
It might feel effortless. It won’t be accidental.
We’ll think carefully about who’s in the room, who we introduce you to, how the conversation begins, when we take it deeper — and when we get out of the way.
How the evening works
17:00 Welcome drinks. Come in and meet the room.
18:00 Around the table.
20:00-ish Drinks, bites and the conversation continues.
21:00 Officially finished. Motovun may have other ideas.
Bring one woman
When you book, think of one woman you’d really like to have sitting beside you.
Someone interesting. Someone in the middle of something. Someone whose perspective you’d like to hear.
Send her this invitation.
We want to build this table woman by woman.
Your seat
€49 · welcome drinks, wine & bites included
There are only 15 seats around this one — because after that, frankly, it’s no longer a long table. It’s an event. 😂
Pull up a chair. 🩷
Dina & Fransje