The Boyfriend Audit - With Ani Castillo ❤️
My dear sweet friend,
do you have a boyfriend?
A husband?
Or are you dating a guy?
Well, I think it would be worth to go through a questionnaire to see if this gentleman is good for you (or not!)
You could even use it on an ex, to see how he measured up!
I originally developed this audit consisting of 50 VERY crucial questions for my teenage daughter to use as a barometer for her dating life.
Yet, I recently used it to decide if I should keep seeing a coupla of guys. - The answer was a resounding NO in both accounts. And this audit helped me gain clarity in order to make this decision! -.
I've been dating a bunch of people while I try to find my person.
And I've learned so many things that I'm in the midst of writing a book about it with Penguin Random House!
That's how I've come up with this audit.
From having so very many experiences in dating, and from reading around 40 books about the subject!
I can't wait to share with you.
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Some questions in the audit include:
Does he remind you of someone? (Mom? Dad? Someone else?)
Does he make you feel heard and understood?
Does he invite you to learn about his inner world and wants to know about yours?
Does he include you in his life (friends, family, work, hobbies, etc.)?
Does he work towards an exciting future and has a plan?
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Oh, yeah. Your boyfriend is about to get audited!
Hooray!
Let's sip some smoothies and go through this audit together ❤️❤️❤️
I'm so very excited to see you there,
With Love,
Ani