

#6 The Coach Exchange - The Mirror by CTRL™
Coaches spend a great deal of time helping clients notice their patterns. But what about the patterns the coach brings into the conversation?
How do our own responses, preferences and assumptions influence the way we engage with clients, often without us realising?
In this interactive session, Toby Newman introduces The Mirror by CTRL™ an approach to self-awareness that helps us recognise how we show up and explore the choices available in the moment.
Together, we'll explore:
- How our own patterns can influence coaching conversations.
- Why the space between a trigger and our response matters.
- How greater self-awareness can open up deeper conversations with clients.
We'll also explore how The Mirror can help coaches and clients build a shared language for understanding their patterns, perspectives and possibilities.
Because sometimes the most interesting person to explore in a coaching conversation is the coach.
About Toby
Toby Newman is a Learning & Development Consultant, ICF-trained coach and creator of The Mirror by CTRL™. With over 20 years' experience in L&D, his work focuses on self-awareness, learning culture and making personal development practical.