Workshop: Explore Your Desires & Fantasies
Here's something most of us have never been asked out loud: What do you actually want?
Not what you've been told to want. Not what you think you should want. Not the sanitised, partner-friendly, socially-acceptable version. The real thing.
The fantasies that flicker through your mind when no one's watching. The turn-ons you've maybe never even said to yourself. The curiosities you've quietly googled and then deleted from your browser history.
This evening, we're getting curious about all of it!
About this workshop:
Most women have spent their whole lives being told what's "sexy" and what isn't, what's normal and what isn't, what's allowed and what should stay hidden. So we end up with this strange split: a public version of our desire that's tidy and acceptable, and a private one that we're not always sure what to do with. Many of us are also a little disconnected from our own fantasies, either because we've shut them down, never let ourselves explore them, or worry that what turns us on says something "bad" about who we are.
Spoiler: It doesn't. Your fantasies are some of the most fascinating, revealing, useful information you have about yourself. And learning how to listen to them, instead of judging them, can change your relationship with desire entirely.
This 90-minute virtual workshop is a held, shame-free space to explore your inner erotic world. To get curious about what genuinely turns you on, why, and what it might be telling you about yourself.
What we'll explore together:
We'll talk about how desire actually works (and why it doesn't always show up the way we've been told it should).
The difference between fantasy and "what I want in real life," and why those don't have to match.
The patterns hidden in our fantasies, and what they reveal about us, beyond shame, beyond judgment.
Why our turn-ons are so often tangled up with things that surprise us, and why that's not a problem to fix but information to understand.
And practical, gentle ways to start exploring your inner erotic landscape with curiosity instead of fear.
We'll work with reflection exercises, journaling prompts, and shame-free discussion. You'll share as much or as little as you want to (your fantasies are yours, you never have to disclose anything you don't want to). You'll leave with new clarity, new questions, and prompts to keep exploring on your own time.
The vibe?
Warm. Curious. Shame-free. There will be "oh, that's why I'm into that" moments. There will be quiet "I never let myself think about that before" realisations. There will be zero judgment, zero pressure to share, and a whole lot of permission. You'll leave with a deeper understanding of your own desire, and probably a journal full of notes you'll want to come back to!
Who this is for:
Women who are curious about their own desire. Whether you have a rich inner fantasy life and want to understand it better, or you feel like you've lost touch with your fantasies entirely, or you're not even sure what you want anymore, you belong here. All experience levels welcome.
The details:
Monday 24 August 2026 20:00 CET
90 minutes Virtual on Zoom (link sent after registration)
Bring: something to journal with, a quiet space, and an open mind
About your host:
I'm Janine, a certified integrative sex coach and sex educator. I create spaces where nothing is too much, no question is off-limits, and your wholeness is treated as the serious (and joyful) thing it is. Everything I hold is trauma-informed, confidential, and built on one belief: your body already knows. We're just going to help you listen.