I'm Good In Bed Workshop
The previously SOLD OUT workshop for people who already are…and those who want to be: Good in bed.
Let’s be honest, most people don’t want to admit they haven’t learned everything there is to know about sex yet. And honestly, you're probably already doing a lot of things right.
I’m Good in Bed is a playful, insightful, mildly spicy (clothes on) workshop for curious couples and individuals who want sex to feel even more confident, more connected, and more intentional.
This isn’t about starting from scratch or being told what you’re doing wrong. It’s about refining your skills, sharpening your instincts, and adding a few powerful tools to what you already know.
Together, we’ll explore what really fuels desire, how attraction shows up differently for different people, and how a few well chosen words (and timing) can unlock more chemistry, more ease, and a lot more pleasure.
You’ll walk away with tools you can use right away, including:
How to notice and unlock someone’s fantasies in just a few words
Touch techniques that land better (without guessing)
How to escalate things smoothly with ongoing consent
How to talk dirty like a pro (without sounding awkward or rehearsed)
Simple frameworks for reading offers, responding confidently, and keeping momentum
No explicit touch. No pressure to share personal details. No being put on the spot.
Just a relaxed, open space to refine your skills, build confidence, and leave thinking: “Oh yeah, I’m definitely good in bed” 🔥
About Your Hosts
James Buckley is a Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach with over 17 years of lived experience in alternative relationships and over a decade in the kink scene. Trained at the Somatica Institute of Sex and Relationship Coaching in San Francisco, James has supported hundreds of individuals and couples through his work as a sex and relationship therapist.
Tilly Reid is the founder of The Open Circle and a long-time community leader in the world of alternative relationships. She is known for creating warm, accessible spaces where honest conversations about sex, communication, and connection are welcomed and celebrated.
Together, James and Tilly run The Open Circle, FAR and regularly co-facilitate workshops and events like I’m Good in Bed, blending practical skills, clarity, and confidence building experiences you can take straight into real life.