Victoria. In-Person | Coffee and Constellations
A 3-hour gathering to connect with like-minded community, experience collective healing, and drop into your body — with a good cup of coffee or tea of course ☕
What is Family Constellations?
Family Constellations was created by Bert Hellinger, a German therapist, in the late 1980s. He developed this work after living with the Zulu people in South Africa, where he learned how they related to each other, their land, and to their ancestors. When someone in the community had an issue, the medicine person and elders would throw bones from their livestock to represent what was going on and work through it together. Hellinger took what he learned from the Zulu and married it with Carl Jung's work and other Western psychotherapies to create Family Constellations.
There are three roles in a constellation:
Facilitator: that's me. I hold the space and guide the process.
Seeker: the person bringing something forward to look at: a repetitive pattern, a relationship, a health issue, a business or vocation question, a money dilemma, anything. If you're a seeker, you mostly observe — honestly, the easiest role in the room.
Representative: the representatives are essential, like the bones the Zulu threw. When called on by the facilitator, they give body reports — dropping into what we call the "all-knowing field" and tuning into the essence of whatever they're representing, whether that's a grandmother, a vending machine, or a left knee. They're not acting anything out. They're simply sensing what's there and reporting back when asked.
That's the basics, everything you need to know before you walk in the door.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This is for good humans who are:
🤍 are feeling stuck with an issue in life, wellness, work or money
🤍 seeking support and community with like-minded humans
🤍 spiritually open/or curious
🤍 kind and thoughtful
🤍 individuals, couples, caring professionals
WHAT THIS CONTAINER IS?
☀️ a non-judgemental space
☀️ relationally empowered
☀️ sacred
☀️ supportive
WHAT WILL YOU RECEIVE?
🌟 a sense of feeling supported and nourished on a soul level
🌟 meaningful collective healing
🌟 a place where all of you is welcome
TENTATIVE SCHEDULE:
9:30am - 10am: specialty coffee/tea and a breakfast snack
10am - 10:15am: intro to constellations work
10:15am - 12:15pm: a constellation and group activity
12:15pm-12:30pm: take aways and closing
ABOUT YOUR GUIDE:
Luana is a certified Constellations Facilitator and Relational Life Therapy Coach. With her background in Somatic Experiencing and trauma resolution she's supported over 2,000 people around the world in building healthier, more connected relationships. She's spent over a decade helping clients regulate their nervous systems so they can show up step into relational joy and move towards their purpose.
WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING:
"I'm finally living for myself. Working with Luana has changed my life. I became financially independent, started my own business and have the best relationships with my family I've ever had."
~ Tasha. England
"Working with Luana has absolutely transformed our relationship! We sought her out after hearing Terry Real talk on an podcast about “normal marital hatred” and wanting to work with someone who shares that honest, growth-minded approach.
Doing counselling together created a level of vulnerability, accountability, and teamwork that feels incredibly powerful. Luana brings a balance of fierce compassion while holding us accountable to patterns that no longer serve us, and helping deepen the security, openness and connection in our relationship."
~ Christi and Jake. British Columbia
I highly recommend engaging Luana to facilitate difficult, yet necessary conversations, during trying times in our relationship. I found her to be approachable, a good listener, able to gently but effectively push back when needed, and really help shine a light to clarify what is going on in each person, and as a couple. I found our time with her to be effective, productive, and to the point. If I had to summarize, we got more done in less time than at any time in our lives working with couples professionals.
~ David and Lisa. Vermont
“We tried couples therapy before and didn’t get anywhere, so we were skeptical but this was different. The somatic work and nervous system focus helped us get to the root of our issues and really understand what our mind and bodies actually do when we’re both flooded.For the past 3 weeks, my partner has stepped up in ways I didn’t even imagine and I actually feel hopeful for the first time in a long time. The skills we learned that weekend are making a difference for our whole household.”
~ Toni and Evan. Arizona
"We've tried the best of the best in marriage counselling and even sat with the founders of highly reputable therapy approaches and they haven't got us the results we've gotten with Luana. One reason it's different is because she includes our bodies and adaptive knee-jerk responses which those other modalities leave out.. She's truly gifted at what she does.”
~ Cindy and Phil. Florida
"I'm finally feeling more confident to date again. After a slew of negative experiences with men, I'm finally able to go on dates and say yes to myself before deciding if I want to say yes to my dates agenda. Incredibly liberating. I honestly never thought I would be here."
~ Clarissa. British Columbia
"Luana helped me realize the skills that took me to a high level in my tech career are the exact skills that will end up with my third divorce. Somehow she delivered this news to me in a way that made me trust her more. She helped me see and master the softer skills I needed to have a peaceful partnership and be the husband my wife deserves. Everyone needs a Luana in their ear."
~ Mike. Colorado
Please Note:
By participating in this workshop, you acknowledge and agree to the following terms:
No Guarantees: The guide provides guidance and advice based on personal experience, but results may vary. There are no guarantees of specific outcomes.
Personal Responsibility: You acknowledge that participation in the workshop is voluntary and you are solely responsible for your actions, decisions, and well-being. Any decisions made following the workshop are at your own discretion.
Limit of Liability: The coach and any associated parties are not liable for any damages, losses, or injuries arising from participation in this workshop, whether directly or indirectly.
Confidentiality: By participating, you agree not to share personal content or information from the session without consent.
No Substitute for Professional Help: This workshop is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. If you require such assistance, you are advised to consult a qualified professional.
By attending, you agree to release the coach and associated parties from any liability or claims arising from your participation.