Single's Mixer by updateme: #FindYourFrequency
#FindYourFrequency is our Single's Mixer for people who are tired of the algorithm and ready to walk into a room, have a real conversation, and see what happens.
How it works: Every guest is verified and the room is intentionally balanced. Throughout the night, you'll move through curated groupings based on shared interests — no awkward icebreakers, no forced conversations, no pressure.
Just good drinks, great energy, and people you'd actually want to talk to.
What's included: → Verified, curated guest list (every RSVP is reviewed) → Interest-based conversation groupings throughout the night → A chance to win a fully planned date matched to your interests
The details: Dress well. Professionals welcome.
This evening is brought to you by updateme — a new date planning platform launching soon in NYC that connects people through shared interests and real-world plans. Unlike dating apps, updateme skips the swiping and the small talk and gets straight to the part that actually matters: the date itself. Be one of the first to experience it.
Limited spots. Once we're balanced, registration closes.
Join the waitlist for future events: www.updateme.com
What our previous attendees said:
"I showed up fully prepared to leave after 20 minutes. I stayed for three hours and exchanged numbers with someone I'm genuinely excited about. Whatever they're doing differently — it works." — Priya, 31, attended her first updateme event 3 weeks ago.
"I've been to those other things. You know the ones. This was nothing like that. I wasn't performing. I was just... present." — James, 34
"Honestly I almost cancelled. I'm so glad I didn't. I laughed so much and shared a lot about myself which I rarely do, and I met someone I've now been on two dates with." — Megan, 32
We don't do awkward. We don't do forced. We do real conversations, actual chemistry, and nights that are worth leaving the couch for.