💕 First Date: A Singles Mixer for Queers 30+ 💕
[DATE CHANGE: please note, the date of this event has changed from Friday 9/12 to Friday 10/10!]
Join us for an evening for sparks, chemistry, and meaningful connection. Co-hosted with soft(spaces) kin, @artbaesel, this intimate gathering is for queer folks, 30 and over, who are looking to meet potential partners in a setting that feels thoughtful, warm, and a little bit flirty.
With an intentionally designed program and space for just 20 guests, this isn’t speed dating or quick small talk. Instead, it’s about slowing down—sharing space, engaging in conversation and creating room for connections to build. We’ve designed the evening to invite intimacy and create moments where attraction can unfold naturally.
Come ready for an evening of intention, intimacy, and queer connections.
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LOCATION:
● The Bronx (10456), 0.7 miles from the 2/5 freeman street subway station.
● nearby bus stops: BX11, BX15, BX17, BX21, BX35
● exact address is shared with confirmed RSVPs
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EXCHANGE:
● non-members: $30
● soft(spaces) members: $15
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ACCESSIBILITY NOTE:
● This event will be on the 2nd floor of The soft(spaces) Clubhouse, 34 steps from street level: (outside) 5 steps → landing with ample moving space → 11 steps → landing/ front porch deck → (inside) 16 steps → landing → 2 steps → 2nd floor lounge.
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ABOUT SOFT(SPACES)
● soft(spaces) is a BIPOC centered social club for the queers by the queers, offering places for us to consistently gather & ground.
Based in The Bronx, NYC, we operate as a hub for connection and place with a focus on intentionality around how space is shared, experienced and stewarded. From access to The soft(spaces) Clubhouse, space to book your own events & collaboration options to thoughtfully curated events, members-only meet-ups & a rich network, members have access to a number of perks that foster more than just access, but possibilities for meaningful connection.
Designed with fluidity in mind, soft(spaces) serves as a dynamic ecosystem of people, places & experiences. Founded and run by a BIPOC, LGBTQ+, and neurospicy couple, soft(spaces) is a reflection of lived experience—intentionally centering creativity, community, rest, and play.
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FOLLOW US
● Instagram: @softspaces
● TikTok: @softspacesworld
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SOFT(SPACES) MEMBERSHIP
● For more info &/ or to apply to become a soft(spaces) member, click HERE!
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CANCELLATION/ REFUND POLICY:
● Due to the nature of this event, this event is non-refundable!
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DONATIONS:
• Donations are deeply appreciated! ✨
• If you would like to make a donation to soft(spaces), please do via Zelle to [email protected] or Venmo to @softspaces
Thank you!