

Building a good life: Part 1
Is slowness something you can’t afford, or something you’ve never learned to practice?
This seminar is an attempt to recover the older sense of slowness as a demanding posture rather than a soft one, and discipline as the precondition for a life worth living rather than a constraint on it.
We've inherited two impoverished vocabularies. "Slow living" arrives as the curated refusal of hustle culture. "Discipline" arrives as either elitist judgment or grim self-denial, something imposed rather than chosen. Both framings flatten what older traditions understood: that a deliberate life requires sustained interior work, and that the capacity to sit with difficulty is what makes contemplation, attention, and meaning possible at all.
We'll work from short readings (a section of Pieper's Leisure: The Basis of Culture and the "Where I Lived, and What I Lived For" chapter of Walden, ~60 pages total), but the readings are scaffolding for the conversation, not the focus.
Questions we'll work through together:
What is the difference between rest and distraction? Why is it so difficult to do nothing without reaching for something?
Why has discipline come to feel like an elitist imposition? Whose interests does that framing serve?
Is slowness a luxury, a discipline, or a refusal? And does the answer change the cost?
What can't be perceived, made, or known at the speed at which we currently live?
What practices have you tried to install, and what made them stick or fail?
Bring the readings, bring honesty about your own life, and bring a willingness to be uncomfortable. The conversation will be better for it.
Your host
Anu Pandey, who has a weekly newsletter with thousands of readers and writes about what happens when society chooses comfort over truth.