Secrets of a Geisha
Ease Is the New Sexy.
There is something deeply attractive about a woman who feels free. You can see it in the way she moves, the way she looks at you, the way she laughs. In how she enjoys a conversation, receives attention, and remains fully herself.
She may still have a business to run, children to take care of, difficult decisions to make, and a packed calendar. Ease does not necessarily arrive with a vacation or when the last task on your to-do list is finally complete. It is something we can learn to cultivate within our ordinary, busy lives.
This is what Aizhan Kadyr’s workshop “Secrets of a Geisha” is about.
Why the Geisha?
At the heart of this workshop is the image of a woman who has mastered an art: the art of communication, movement, attention to detail, and creating an atmosphere.
Through this image, we will explore what femininity looks like for each of us. Where pleasure and enjoyment naturally appear, and where we begin trying too hard, judging ourselves, searching for the “right” way to behave, and losing that sense of ease.
This is not about learning to be agreeable or pretending to be a mysterious stranger. It is much more interesting to discover your own natural attractiveness and allow it to come forward.
Where Does Ease Come From?
It is difficult to feel playful when there is a constant voice inside saying, “Pull yourself together.” It is difficult to notice your own desires when your attention is occupied with everyone else’s needs from morning until night.
That is why we will also talk about the body: the nervous system, tension, and relaxation. Why we cannot simply command ourselves to relax, and what can help us gradually shift out of our habitual state.
Aizhan will introduce practices designed to develop sensuality and feminine sexuality. We will experiment, observe our sensations, and discover a pace that feels right for us.
Another topic will be what we playfully call “Zen not-caring.” With humor, but also quite seriously, we will explore how to stop spending so much energy on things that do not actually require our constant involvement. Where can we loosen control, allow others to take care of us, and let something remain imperfect?
You May Want to Join If You Are...
Looking for ways to feel less tense and enjoy life more.
Curious about your sexuality, even if that part of your life has recently taken a back seat.
Tired of always being the woman who handles everything.
Or simply curious: Who am I when I do not have to prove anything?
During the workshop, you will have an opportunity to:
🔹 Notice what may be preventing you from experiencing more ease
🔹 Try practices focused on relaxation and body awareness
🔹 Explore your sensuality while honoring your personal boundaries
🔹 Discover ways to bring more playfulness and pleasure into your communication and everyday life
Do not expect every worry to disappear after one workshop. But you may discover a different way of experiencing them and choose practices that you would like to take with you into your daily life.
About the Facilitator
Aizhan Kadyr is a psychologist and coach with 16 years of experience, an ICU Master Coach, creator of the transformational games “Healing Love” and “The Magic of Your Decisions,” and author of the book “From Samurai to Geisha: 33 Lessons in Femininity.”
📍 NOVA Studio, Los Altos
TOUCH Training Center
223 2nd St, Los Altos, CA 94022
📅 Sunday, September 27
⏰ 6:00 PM
⌛ Duration: 2 hours
💰 Admission: $33
🎟 To attend, please register on this page.
📩 If you have any questions, contact Olga Bazaleva on Telegram: @OlgaBazaleva
Come explore a lighter way of being, even if your to-do list is still unfinished.