Cover Image for What Men Want: On Friendship
Cover Image for What Men Want: On Friendship
Not another meetup, but an invitation into deeper connection — with yourself, with others, and with the questions we often carry alone.
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About Event

Shared Table Dinners—where we meet around food and questions. Everyone brings something to the potluck: a dish, a thought, a feeling, a view—and that’s already plenty.


*For men or persons who have been socialized as boys or men.

Too often, men are taught to compete, to keep feelings inside, or to go it alone. But what if being a man could mean something else: having relationships to count on, showing up for each other, and building connections that last?

Friendship between men is often constricted and centred around debates, jokes, or surface-level conversation, avoiding the more personal and honest.

But beneath that, many men, as most of us, are looking for something deeper: friendship that lasts, that supports, and that allows us to be real with one another.

This Shared Table Dinner is an invitation for those who identify or were socialized as men to gather, reflect, share stories, and to ask: What do we actually want from friendship, and from each other?

The evening is co-created with Jindy Mann, founder of Leader.Brother.Son, a global project exploring what it means to be a man today. Jindy works with men around the world to build stronger relationships—with themselves and each other—and brings insights and stories that spark honest, meaningful conversation.

🍎 How It Works

​We ask that you bring something small and easy to share to keep it simple, tasty, and low-waste. You could bring a spread, a salad, raw veggies for a platter, a leftover that’s still delicious, or something sweet 🍫. Homemade or store-bought, all welcome.

​This is an alcohol-free, vegetarian dinner — we’ll have tea and water to share.

​Come by yourself, with a friend, or someone you only recently met!


Pay What You Can 🌟

We want this dinner to be accessible, so we’ve set a sliding scale you can choose from:

  • 7 € → keeps it affordable and covers basic costs (no profit)

  • 10 € → helps us cover material costs and give a little back

  • 15 € → supports the work the facilitator(s), and sustains the space for future gatherings

Pay what feels right for you—and know that every contribution makes these Shared Tables possible for the community!

Thank you for supporting us, your hosts—C*SPACE, a purpose-driven creative hub housed in a former furniture factory in Weißensee, cultivating curiosity, community, and regenerative ideas through events, co-working, and cultural programs, and The Oneliness Project, led by Monika Jiang, a writer, facilitator, and community builder, explores the transformation from loneliness to connection, weaving our shared experience into a practice of oneliness.


​🕰️ Flow

18:30 – Doors Open
Arrive slowly, help set the table, or just settle in.

19:15 – Welcome
Please have arrived by now so we can begin together.

19:30 – Shared Table: Potluck Meal
Let’s eat! :) Sharing what we’ve each brought.

20:15 – Reflections & Sharing Circle
Gentle invitation to connect more deeply around the topic of the evening.

21:15 – Clean up together
If everyone washes their bowl, we’ll be done in no time. And anyway, the best conversations often happen in the kitchen.

22:00 – Doors Close
Leave with a full belly, hopefully, a full heart, and maybe something new to sit with.

Can’t wait to see you!
With love,
Monika & C*Space
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Location
C-SPACE Berlin gGmbH
Langhansstraße 86, 13086 Berlin, Germany
Not another meetup, but an invitation into deeper connection — with yourself, with others, and with the questions we often carry alone.