The Kindling x ZāR: A Sauna Night of Ritual, Rhythm and Release
Step into a new way to party on Friday night. In this collaboration between The Kindling and ZĀR, we’re melding the world of breath and sound into a seamless night of ritualistic rhythms and dancing for deeper connection.
The night begins with breathwork to help ground you, the heat of the sauna to support heart-opening connection, and ice bath speed rounds to strip away the noise and just be present with someone new. Then we turn up the energy and dance.
What to expect
💨 Guided breathwork to land in your body
🔥 Hot sauna and aromatherapy to open up
🧊 Ice bath rounds to come into presence
🎵 Ritualistic rhythms by ZĀR
🕺 Dancing to let go and find joy
🧘♂️ A closing meditation to integrate the night
⚡️ Non-alc drinks with a boost of energy from Disco Fizz
Your hosts for the evening
Brian Lamy is a breathwork facilitator, therapist, and sober gay man creating experiences for queer men to deepen their connection and belonging to themselves and each other.
ZāR is a New York series of gatherings rooted in ritual, rhythm, and release, inspired by a centuries-old musical and communal tradition that has traveled across the Middle East, continuously evolving with every generation it touched. ZāR turns the dance floor into a space for connection as much as movement.
Othership guides will lead us through breathwork, ice baths, and connection moments throughout the night.
The fine details
🩳 All you need is a bathing suit and an open mind. We’ll set up the rest of the night for you.
🌈 This night is open to men and non-binary individuals who identify as gay, bi, trans, or queer.
👉 This event is alcohol- and substance-free. Please arrive sober and refrain from any alcohol or substances prior to this event.
❤️ This space is built on inclusion and respect for every person. Anyone who doesn’t demonstrate those values may be asked to leave.
🙋 See what to expect and FAQs for Othership here.
Note on photography
📷 By attending this event, you're entering a space where photos and video will be captured for promotional use. If you'd prefer not to be photographed, grab an orange bracelet at check-in to signal your preference to our photographer. We'll do our best to keep you out of shots. Attendance constitutes agreement to this policy.