QTBIPOC & ALLIES Family Constellations in San Francisco
I’m pleased to announce the first in-person family constellation that I am facilitating in San Francisco! My year-long certification training with Kyla Mitsunaga will be complete come December, so I am always looking for opportunities to be in the field to practice and grow my skills with facilitating.
HOUSEKEEPING
Since this is a free event, please bring a snack/dish/non-alcoholic beverage to share, or flowers as an energy exchange.
We are a shoes off household so please wear easy to remove shoes and clean socks.
I have a dog that will be in the other room, so if you are allergic, this may not be the event for you.
Q&A
WHO IS THIS FOR?
Everyone really, but this particular event I’m opening specifically to QTBIPOC, women, AND our allies.
WHAT IS FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS?
FC is the name of the healing modality popularized and brought to the mainstream by German missionary and therapist Bert Hellinger after being inspired by the Zulu of South Africa, how they handled conflict relationally, and their shamanic healing practices.
Oftentimes, the very thing we are avoiding, rejecting, dismissing, or judging holds the key to our liberation.
We will likely only have time for 1 constellation, but may get to two.
All who wish to be the seeker/client will put their name in to be drawn, and I will choose someone at random.
Those who participate in the constellation will be chosen to represent the seeker and whomever or whatever may be needed to bring in depending on what the seeker is wanting support with. This is so the seeker can simply observe and avoid influencing the constellation too much with their biases and resistance.
Constellations are helpful for getting clarity and giving the seeker the opportunity to be an observer to gain new perspective that they otherwise would not have.
YOU DO NOT NEED PRIOR EXPERIENCE with this work to participate. Only an open, curious mind and heart are required.
If you do not want to participate and you wish to observe only, just lmk beforehand.
WHAT ARE SOME THINGS I SHOULD EXPECT, OR POSSIBLE OUTCOMES?
Those who represent (rep) in the constellation often report experiencing healing and breakthroughs themselves. This is usually because they have something in common or have a similar dynamic in their own family system.
After doing FC-inspired ancestral and energetic work with clients, some of the results they report are
A sense that a weight or burden has been lifted and they now have energy and freedom to move forward in their lives
New relationships beginning after focused sessions on releasing ties to ex partners, parents, parents’ ex partners, heavy relationships, etc.
Pain decreasing and holding patterns in the body releasing with little to no hands-on work in-person and online
A lightness and brightness in their eyes and face, with some even self-assessing that they look “younger” because of this new light-heartedness
A connection or strengthened connection to their spirit babies
Feeling clearer in the direction of their business and with their relationship with money and finances
Feeling little to no fear or charge around topics and issues that used to activate them.
Feeling connected to their ancestors in a way that had not previously felt was possible.
Changes in family dynamics and how we and they relate to each other.
DO I HAVE TO CHOOSE A FAMILY RELATED ISSUE TO CONSTELLATE ON?
No. It is not only used for family-related issues or patterns, but our families are more often than not the root of the patterns we carry. We will decide together with the field what and who to bring in as reps.
WHAT ARE SOME OTHER THINGS I COULD CONSTELLATE ON AS THE SEEKER?
A family system does not consist only of your blood family. Important key energy in the system/constellation/field is often forgotten, unknown, secret, traumatized or traumatic people in the system. Some examples of people and things that may be repped in a family system are:
Aborted or miscarried pregnancies
Adoptive/adopted family members and their lineage
Early deaths
Trauma
Beliefs
Medical conditions/illnesses/pain
Perpetrators
Victims
Significant ex partners
Ancestors
Guides
Secret/unknown family members
Pets
Your Business
Money/Abundance
Blockages to your creativity
and so much more
DO I NEED EXPERIENCE IN ORDER TO JOIN?
No. I and many others have joined as reps or seekers the very first time attending a constellation and it is surprisingly natural for anyone to be able to tap into the energetic field of someone’s family system.
WHO IS THIS NOT FOR?
Closed-minded skeptics (open-minded skeptics welcome)
Those who are high-risk and in need of specialized care and treatment, and who are using this in place of psychotherapy (psychosis, addiction, BPD, SI, schizophrenia, etc.)
Individuals who are not willing to or interested in engaging in group healing and want/need high touch individualized care.
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER?
Ground yourself in nature, take a shower/bath, call all your parts and energy back to you, and command that all energy that doesn’t belong to you be returned to to sender.
You may feel tender after, so please be gentle with yourself and avoid being in a place or with energy that is draining or demanding.
Journaling is a great way to integrate, as well as booking an integration call with me after if challenges arise from the constellation.