

Stop Arguing, Start Connecting: Turn Conflict Into Deeper Love and Understanding with Nicholas Hebert, LCSW
Every closest relationship comes with conflict (whether over or avoided), but it doesn’t have to leave you stuck, drained, or resentful.
Beneath every argument are clues about your vulnerabilities, triggers, and communication styles. When you know how to read those clues, conflict can actually lead to deeper understanding and connection.
This free community event is your chance to pause, reflect, and shift the patterns that keep repeating in your relationships.
With guidance from a licensed therapist and the support of others who know what it’s like, you’ll explore:
The hidden meaning of common conflict patterns, and how they can teach you about yourself, your needs, and how to best bond with your partner.
Your unique conflict, communication, and attachment styles, and how to use that awareness to turn disagreements into deeper connection.
Everyday tools that help foster connection and compassion when things start to get heated.
How to transform frustration into strength to build resilience, empathy, and intimacy from the very arguments that once pulled you apart.
You’ll leave with practical skills and fresh perspectives to turn conflict into one of your greatest relationship strengths, creating more love, trust, and ease in everyday life.
This event is 90 minutes long, with cameras on. Participants are encouraged to introduce themselves (first names only), and share as they feel comfortable.
About Your Therapist Facilitator, Nicholas
Nicholas Hebert is a social worker and therapist with over 10 years in practice. As a queer person, he has developed a specialty in providing mental health care to other queer folks, focusing on bridging evidence-based treatments and culturally responsive and affirming care. He primarily works with individuals healing from past trauma, navigating major life changes, grief, and those looking to experience more intimacy and connection in their relationships. Nicholas, has received clinical supervision and training in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples, and EMDR, and has training in mindfulness education and facilitation through The Center for Mindful School. When not practicing, he can be found curled up with his knitting or a book, or out exploring with his pup, Bentley.
Participation Guidelines
This workshop is designed to be educational. While the content may be personally meaningful, it is not therapy or healthcare. By registering for this event, you agree to our Terms of Service.