​From AI assistants to companion platforms, technology is becoming increasingly emotionally fluent.

​For some, these systems offer comfort without judgment. For others, they raise deeper questions about connection and loneliness: what are we really responding to when something feels like it cares - without actually doing so?

​Get ready to challenge your assumptions with Herman Ahmad.

​A futurist who began his career in AAA game development designing complex interactive systems and experiences, Herman now helps shape how Singapore adopts and governs digital innovation by connecting insights across sectors.

​When asked what he wishes more people would consider, he shares a line originally articulated by John Culkin: “We shape our tools, and thereafter our tools shape us.”

​An evening when slow bar meets reality check, we'll explore why humans are increasingly open to forming bonds with machines, and what this shift might reveal about our expectations of connection over time. Equal parts sharing, discussion, and the occasional “wait… that's uncomfortably true”.

​The Space: EarlyAfter (EA)

​Set beside New Bahru, EA is a Singaporean-owned café and cocktail bar co-founded by former nurse Vivien & Irene, conceived as a space for pause, connection, and recovery through food and presence.

​Whether you're an advocate of human-centric products or learner of sorts, this is your chance to geek out with fellow curious humans.

​Bring your listening ears, opinions, and sense of humour. We'll provide the space, the vibes, and research on a corner of the world.

​Fair warning: conversations may get unexpectedly thoughtful.

​Bits and Bobs

• ​6.50pm: Doors open. Order a drink and unwind.

• ​7.15pm: Dinner service.

• ​7.25pm: Introductions. Herman takes the spotlight.

• ​8.15pm: Three questions, multiple perspectives. Share your story about the topic, or listen and chime in when discussions get interesting. We will facilitate.

• ​8.45pm: Wrap-up, mingle, and connect with fellow humans.

​P.S.

​Do consider using PayNow as a payment method to reduce processing fees on SoCrates so we can ensure the amount goes towards dinner, printing materials, platform usage, and other misc. expenses as Stripe and Luma take 12-15% of total ticket price. We hope to see you there!

​​Refunds

​We understand plans change. Refunds are possible a week before the event. If there’s something urgent on the day of, please reach out to us here or on Luma to see how we can help 💫