

Communion: The Female Search For Love, by bell hooks
A Leadership Salon hosted by The Wise Women's Council and Sarah K Peck.
What happens when women are taught to seek love by abandoning themselves?
Join us for a thoughtful conversation about bell hooks' Communion: The Female Search for Love (companion to All About Love) — a book that explores women's friendships, self-love, intimacy, and healing.
What we'll explore
This book is a series of essays on women's inner lives and our relationships, our friendships, and our intimacy. It looks at loneliness and desire, and why it's so hard to find partners and intimate relationships when everywhere we've been taught that we must first abandon ourselves.
It's a critique of the cultural stories that women inherit. Women are taught that our value comes from being chosen, from self-sacrificing, from endlessly giving, working for free, and pleasing others.
Join us for a deep conversation about the cultural stories we inherit, and how to unhook from them, day by day.
What to expect
90 minutes, virtual on Zoom
A warm welcome and introductions
Guided conversation around the book's ideas and questions
Small-group discussions
New perspectives and meaningful connections
Closing reflections and time to stay connected afterwards
Whether you're a founder, leader, creative, or simply someone who loves thoughtful conversation, we'd love to have you join us.
ABOUT THE WISE WOMEN’S COUNCIL
This salon offers a glimpse into the thoughtful conversations that happen every week inside the Wise Women’s Council.
Over the course of a year, women come together to think out loud, explore what’s next, and support one another in council. We meet every Thursday for small-group conversations, coaching, and community.
→ Want more conversations like this?
Applications for the next Wise Women’s Council are open. Our next group begins October 29, 2026.
Find out more about The Wise Women's Council here.
ABOUT THE WISE WOMEN'S LEADERSHIP SALONS
These are small gatherings designed for meaningful conversation rather than networking. Each salon centers around a single question or topic, with guided facilitation, thoughtful prompts, and plenty of space to hear from one another.
Find out more at wisewomenscouncil.com/events
YOUR HOST
Sarah K Peck is the founder and creator of The Wise Women’s Council. For more than a decade, she's helped founders, executives, creatives, and leaders think more clearly, make difficult decisions, and build lives that align with their values. She is a deeply experienced facilitator, interviewer, and coach who believes the most important conversations happen around a table, in small circles, where people discover that they're not alone. You can read more of her work in her newsletter, How To Be Human.