Pluto's Men's Circle (6pm start)
Doors close at 6:30pm - Please arrive on time
To honour our agreements and protect the safety of the participants, no late entry will be allowed after the circle has opened.
Intention & Purpose
We gather to cultivate healthy, embodied, integrated masculinity — together.
This circle is a brave space to show up honestly, be witnessed, and be supported by other men in your community.
We come together:
To be seen, heard, and held — without needing to perform or fix.
To create accountability and support for the change you want in your life.
To connect with your inner council — your circle, your brothers.
To feel less alone and more empowered.
To rise into the healthy, powerful man you already are.
Leadership & Ownership
This is a living, evolving format — a first draft, an invitation to co-create.
In true Plutonian spirit, you’re encouraged to take leadership, offer feedback, and shape what this circle becomes.
This is our space, and your voice matters.
Who It’s For
For any man who’s ready to stop doing it alone and start walking with brothers.
The “lone wolf” who hides his struggles and carries them alone.
The “nice guy” who neglects his own needs and grows resentful.
The “stoic” who doesn’t feel safe to cry or express his emotions.
The “addict” who numbs his pain through work, food, porn, or alcohol.
The “procrastinator” who’s lost faith in his ability to lead his life.
This circle is for any man who feels the call to something greater — who wants brotherhood, accountability, and support to reach his fullest expression.
Themes
Possible directions our circle may explore:
Accountability & Discipline
Shadows & Shadow Work
Father & Mother Wounds
Sexuality & Porn
Shame & Body Image
Fear & the “Safety Officer”
Anger & the “Nice Guy” — Owning Your No
Joy & Expression
Triggers & Trauma
Relationships
Integrity
Money
Grief
Opening Guidelines
Confidentiality: What’s shared here stays here.
No fixing: We’re not here to solve or advise. Ask before offering input.
Speak from “I”: No generalizations or theories — share your experience.
Active listening: Stay grounded and present.
Talking stick: When one man speaks, others listen.
Sharing Signals
When listening, you can connect silently with hand gestures:
✋ I resonate — Hand in the air
🤍 I feel you — Hand on heart
✊ I celebrate you — Fist in the air
Format
Grounding Practice — Drop in with breathwork or guided meditation.
Opening Shares — Each man has space to speak and be witnessed.
Group Practice — Guided exploration of the week’s theme or what’s alive in the collective field.
Closing Shares — Reflections, takeaways, or words of gratitude.
Integration — We close the container through movement, a shake, dance, or connection.