fwb 🌹 lovers & friends: a sapphic play party
Valentine’s Day gets some sapphic spice at Lovers & Friends, a tender, teasing, and joyfully queer play party for women, nonbinary folks, and gender-diverse cuties.
Whether you’re arriving solo, with a crush, a cuddle buddy, or simply a desire to flirt with possibility, this night is for exploring the soft, slow, sweet, and spicy sides of intimacy — together.
Expect a vibe that’s cozy-meets-sultry: warm lighting, soft music, delicious nooks for kissing and whispering, and an atmosphere where care and consent are the sexiest things in the room. Come for the electric eye contact, stay for the tangled limbs, shared giggles, and the way sapphic chemistry makes everything feel like poetry.
Come as you are — tender, bold, shy, curious — and let the night unfold in the arms, breath, and warmth of your community.
We'll be providing decadent desserts, wine, and goodie bags to take home with you.
Friends who identify as men are not allowed at this event.
To attend, please purchase a ticket, fill out an application, and complete a 15 minute interview with our host at least 72 hours prior to the event. Unapproved guests will be turned away at the door.
EVENT SCHEDULE
8:00 Arrival and check-in
9:00 Doors lock + consent speech.
Play can begin
1:15 Lights on
1:30 Everyone out
DRESS CODE
Think: soft, silky, lacy, lots of skin. Reds, pinks, pastels.
We don't have a strict dress code: come comfy in what you feel most sexy in, whether that's sweats, lingerie, or something in between.
We provide coat check, so feel free to bring clothes to change into. Remember you'll be walking in DT to get to the venue — we suggest a big coat at minimum!
ARRIVAL
Doors lock at 9:00P for the comfort and safety of our community. Please arrive early to ensure you will be admitted. Late and unapproved guests will be turned away at the door.
No shoes allowed in the loft. We recommend bringing a pair of grip socks or slippers. If you require an accessibility exemption, please email [email protected].
We provide a coat check and space for you to store your belongings. Feel free to bring a coat, a change of clothes, and/or a toy bag.
If it's your first event, please arrive early. We’ll give you a tour of the space, review the ground rules, answer any questions, and introduce you to other friends.
ACCESSIBILITY
The building is ADA accessible.
There is an elevator. Note for people with wheelchairs, canes, other walking assistance devices: the tile of the lobby floor is uneven so be careful navigating, and the bathroom is not ADA compliant.
This is a low-scent event: no perfume, cologne, or essential oils.
If you have a latex allergy, please let us know ahead of time so we can ensure to remove any latex products in the play space and ask our participants to leave their latex products at home.
PHONE POLICY
We have a strict no phone policy for the privacy and presence of all our guests. Please ensure your phone is off or set to do not disturb. When you arrive, you must check in your phone(s) with one of our hosts. We discourage checking phones during social time, but if you must check your phone before doors lock, you may check it at the front desk and promptly return it to our staff.
Once doors have locked, there are no phones allowed. If you need to check your phone, you will be asked to leave the event.
FOOD & BEVY
We provide tea, non-alcoholic drinks and a variety of snacks.
If you arrive visibly intoxicated, or become overly intoxicated throughout the event, you may be asked to leave for the safety of yourself and our community.
There's no food or bevy in the play area except water.
REFUND & CANCELLATION POLICY
We do not offer refunds. If you need to cancel or change your reservation, please let us know 48 hours prior to an event, and we will credit you for a future event.
If you are sick, were recently exposed to someone who has covid, or tested positive, and let us know ~4 hours prior to an event start, we will credit you for a future event.
We offer refunds if we cancel an event for any reason. We'll send out a cancellation email. Attendees who wish to receive a refund for their ticket purchase will need to respond within 7 days of the cancelled event. All other tickets will receive a credit for a future event.
Because we keep our events intentionally small and curate our guest list for a healthy balance of genders, sexualities, and interests, repeat no calls/no shows by friends with an active fwb membership may have their membership revoked.
ABOUT FWB
fwb is a members-only, queer-femme founded social club for open-minded people to learn, explore, and play. We host a range of sex positive programming, including socials, workshops, and play parties.
CONTACT US
Email [email protected] if you’d like more information on private rentals, collaboration, sponsorship, or have any questions.