fwb 🪶 autoerotica: an exploration of sensual self-touch
Autoerotica is a gathering for sensual self-touch exploration—a cozy, welcoming space where pleasure meets presence. This evening is designed for all genders and all bodies, within a sex-positive community that celebrates curiosity, safety, and connection without expectation. This event is perfect for anyone who wants to deepen their relationship with their own sensuality or those new to play parties.
Expect an atmosphere that’s warm, soft, and deeply nourishing: think cozy textures, ambient sounds, and a space where your body’s wisdom can unfold. The night will move through gentle connection, guided practices, solo exploration, and a restorative sound bath to ground the experience.
This is a night of inward journeying with no partner play, no external touch. Just you, your body, your breath, and the magic that arises when you slow down and give yourself permission to feel.
Dress to your comfort—whether that’s loungewear, lace, or nothing at all. Bring anything that helps you feel at ease (like a blanket, pillow, your favorite lube) and helps you process the experience (like a journal). We’ll provide the rest: a safe, intentional space, and offerings to spark your senses.
Only approved fwb play members can attend. Unapproved guests will be turned away at the door.
If you are not an approved fwb member, please purchase a ticket, fill out a member application, and complete a 15 minute interview with our host at least 72 hours prior to the event.
EVENT SCHEDULE
7:30 Arrival and check-in
8:00 Opening circle + doors lock
Guided sensual offerings
Solo exploration
9:00 Sound bath
Closing
10:00 Depart
FWB MEMBERSHIPS
Anyone can purchase a fwb membership through our Luma event page.
The Basic is $5/mo or $50/yr and offers $5-20 discounts on event tickets and 5%+ discounts on Clubhouse rentals.
The BFF is $30/mo or $300/yr and offers $20-50 discounts on event tickets and 10%+ discounts on Clubhouse rentals.
Please note that having a membership does not guarantee entry to events. Please read event page details for additional vetting requirements for each event.
ARRIVAL
Doors lock at 7:55P for the comfort and safety of our community. Please arrive early to ensure you will be admitted. Late and unapproved guests will be turned away at the door.
No shoes allowed in the loft. We recommend bringing a pair of grip socks or slippers. If you require an accessibility exemption, please email [email protected].
We provide a coat check and space for you to store your belongings. Feel free to bring a coat, a change of clothes, and/or a toy bag.
If it's your first event, please arrive early. We’ll give you a tour of the space, review the ground rules, answer any questions, and introduce you to other friends.
ACCESSIBILITY
The building is ADA accessible.
There is an elevator. Note for people with wheelchairs, canes, other walking assistance devices: the tile of the lobby floor is uneven so be careful navigating, and the bathroom is not ADA compliant.
This is a low-scent event: no perfume, cologne, or essential oils.
If you have a latex allergy, please let us know ahead of time so we can ensure to remove any latex products in the play space and ask our participants to leave their latex products at home.
PHONE POLICY
We have a strict no phone policy for the privacy and presence of all our guests. Please ensure your phone is off or set to do not disturb. When you arrive, you must check in your phone(s) with one of our hosts. We discourage checking phones during social time, but if you must check your phone before doors lock, you may check it at the front desk and promptly return it to our staff.
Once doors have locked, there are no phones allowed. If you need to check your phone, you will be asked to leave the event.
SAFETY
If you arrive visibly intoxicated, or become overly intoxicated throughout the event, you may be asked to leave for the safety of yourself and our community.
REFUND & CANCELLATION POLICY
We do not offer refunds. If you need to cancel or change your reservation, please let us know 48 hours prior to an event, and we will credit you for a future event.
If you are sick, were recently exposed to someone who has covid, or tested positive, and let us know ~4 hours prior to an event start, we will credit you for a future event.
We offer refunds if we cancel an event for any reason. We'll send out a cancellation email. Attendees who wish to receive a refund for their ticket purchase will need to respond within 7 days of the cancelled event. All other tickets will receive a credit for a future event.
Because we keep our events intentionally small and curate our guest list for a healthy balance of genders, sexualities, and interests, repeat no calls/no shows by friends with an active fwb membership may have their membership revoked.
ABOUT FWB
fwb is a members-only, queer-femme founded social club for open-minded people to learn, explore, and play. We host a range of sex positive programming, including socials, workshops, and play parties.
CONTACT US
Email [email protected] if you’d like more information on private rentals, collaboration, sponsorship, or have any questions.