Vanilla Play Party
Join us for a 8-hour transformative experience of sensual exploration and healing, led by trauma-informed female facilitators, set in a luxurious mansion in the bay.
For the past four years, we’ve been hosting these unique, no-penile-penetration play parties in Koh Phangan (Thailand), in Berlin and here in California, and we’re thrilled to bring you yet another magical evening of growth, pleasure, and connection. ✨🥰
With over 4,000 beautiful souls having joined us on this life-changing journey, we warmly invite you to become part of our supportive, vibrant community.
Join 200 hand-selected souls for organic vegan food, cacao, luxurious location, infinity pool, sauna, jacuzzi, tantra workshop and the most epic pleasure {possible} party. 💓
Dress code: Wear whatever makes you feel sexy and your most empowered self. 💫✨
Gender balance: We always hold a strong gender balance and usually have more women than men.
Single souls and Couples: Our community is a healthy mix of singles and partnered couples. There's always plenty of vibey souls to connect with over conversation, a dance, or maybe something more spicy if you're feeling so inclined. 🙃
🦁 Single men: Single men have limited tickets and may be wait‑listed; applying with a female friend increases approval chances. (This is your mission to invite your friends. 😉)
LGBTQ+ welcome? Yes, we endeavor to create a safe(r) space for all bodies and orientations to come play with us and do so by having a rainbow of orientations represented by our team. 🦄 🌈You belong with us. Please reach out if you have questions. 😚
Couples are welcome to play as individuals, or only with each other, or whatever mix in between feels safe in their bodies.
No one is expected to play. We honor you honoring your body and picking your adventure for the night.
What happens at the event?
Watch this video with more information and FAQs
Volunteers: we have 2 spots left for female-bodied volunteers. Volunteers are asked to have experience hosting erotic and trauma informed spaces as the volunteer shift will include being on the care team during the party in case someone needs co-regulation and one shift of either setup (Saturday midday) or breakdown (Sunday morning). Volunteers receive 50% discount on ticket and are welcomed deeper into our thriving community. Please reach out to Brittnee on instagram to apply. 💚
Please reach out to Brittnee on Instagram if you have any questions (https://www.instagram.com/brittneebond)
☀️Next steps to join us:
RSVP & Apply to here on Luma:
https://luma.com/vanilla20jun
We will review your application and notify you within 24 hours if you’re approved, denied or put on our waiting list.
(if you’ve already been to our vanilla before you can say that on the application and you’ll be immediately approved if we have a spot for you 😘)
You will only be charged for a ticket once we approve you.
Once you’re approved you will get a ticket to the event and further instructions for the adventure 🙃☺️