fwb 🫖 pillow talk tea house with Electro Girly
Pillow Talk Tea House is a slow-blooming night designed for softness, chemistry, and connection. It starts gently at 7pm, giving everyone time to drift in, mingle, sip warm tea, and settle into the space. The atmosphere is lush and inviting—soft pillows, warm colorful lighting, delicate music humming in the background, and a room full of sapphic energy that feels both soothing and quietly electric.
At 8pm, we gather for an opening circle. The lights soften, the room settles, and everyone finds a comfortable spot among the pillows. We begin with a calming, grounding guided meditation—something gentle enough to melt tension from the body and clear the mind, but deep enough to help you arrive fully in yourself. Afterward, we go around the room for introductions, giving each person a chance to be seen and heard in an environment that feels safe, warm, and deeply supportive.
By 9pm, the doors close and the lights dim. The energy shifts—still soft, still welcoming, but infused with a more sensual, intimate tone. Conversations deepen. Glances linger. The room becomes a sanctuary where sapphic connection can unfold naturally and without hurry.
Teas continue to steep, mocktails sparkle, and the charcuterie and sweets invite sharing. Guests are welcome to bring baked treats to add to the table, creating a communal, tender atmosphere that feels more like a shared living room than an event.
Pillow Talk is a night to exhale, to flirt gently, to follow whatever threads of curiosity spark for you. It’s a space where desire doesn’t need to be loud to be felt—where softness and sensuality weave together, and connection grows in its own perfect rhythm.
This event is for sapphic identifying friends, including cis and trans women, femmes, trans femmes, and non-binary folks. Friends who identify as men are not allowed.
about your host
Electro Girly is an educator, performer, event coordinator, and Pro Dom at Sanctuary Studios in Los Angeles. After being in the scene since 2017, she began working professionally this year. Kink, and specifically electro play, is her passion. She has hosted electro play parties, teaches transformative classes, runs demo booths, and performs at events, including teaching at DomCon New Orleans. She loves hosting events because it allows her to cultivate a safe space in real time—an environment of self-discovery, connection, mutual understanding, liberation, and community—inviting participants to face their truest selves, explore raw, vulnerable connection, and experience the transformative pulse of self and shared presence.
about fwb
fwb is a queer-femme founded community for curious friends to learn, explore, and play. Programming includes educational, social, and play events.
The fwb clubhouse is a 1,800 sqf loft designed for connection, pleasure, and play available for events, overnights, and hourly rentals.
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membership
Membership is not required for this event. fwb memberships are offered at $5/mo and $30/mo and include perks like discounted pricing on tickets and clubhouse rentals.
tickets
Tickets are offered on a sliding scale, with a minimum price. The price listed on the event page is the suggested price. To change the ticket amount, go to checkout and click the edit button by the ticket price and enter your desired amount.
We offer 2 volunteer tickets per event. Volunteers must have attended a minimum of 2 fwb events to volunteer. You can RSVP as a volunteer here.