​Some nights you don't want to be alone. But you also don't feel like being "on."

​Somber Nights is a dimly lit, intentional evening built around music, reflection, and low-pressure connection. For heartbreak, burnout, grief, loneliness, holiday blues, or just a heavier day than usual.

The holidays are great for some and tough for others. Maybe you just moved and couldn't make it home. Maybe the long weekend left you feeling a little empty, or you don't really have anyone to share a night with. If that's you, there's a place for you at Somber Nights. We're gathering the Sunday after Thanksgiving, when the long weekend winds down and things can feel a little quiet.

​Here's what you'll find at Somber Nights:

​🌙 Dim, warm lighting at Bar 1924, Point Loma’s neighborhood craft bar across from Liberty Station

​🌙 One complimentary cocktail (or non-alcoholic cocktail) handcrafted by Bar 1924 owner Crosby, who brings his Michelin-starred restaurant background to every glass. Additional cocktails available for purchase.

​🌙 Live music artists (to be announced)

​🌙 Somber Sounds by Imanni (@uwantaqua) taking us through the rest of the night

​🌙 The Writing Station with all the materials you need to put down what you haven’t said out loud, like a note to someone you miss or a thank-you note you never sent

​🌙 The Deep End, conversation and reflection cards on every table

​🌙 Take What You Need Station, little notes from the universe for wherever you are tonight, books, and more things to hold on to

​🌙 The Discovery Tower, 8ft tall walls and a place to share and connect with others

​🌙 A wristband system so you never have to say out loud whether you want to talk or not

​🌙 Vendor list (to be announced)*

​You don't have to do any of it. That's the whole point.

​Come alone. Bring friends. Or not. No pressure at all.

​Not a party. Not therapy. Something in between. 🌙

​Follow along for live updates and behind the scenes: TikTok @sombernightsofficial + @hifrancois Instagram @sombernights.official + @hi.francois

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​Doors open at 7:30pm. Live music starts at 8:30pm.

​Tickets are limited. Each ticket includes one drink (the signature cocktail, the non-alcoholic version, beer, or wine). This is a 21+ event. No one under 21 will be allowed on the premises, and a valid ID is required at check-in, no exceptions. Anyone who does not meet the age requirement will be asked to leave.

​*Activations marked with an asterisk are independent vendor experiences. Fees are set and collected directly by each vendor and are not included with your ticket purchase.

​Waitlist note: joining the waitlist requires a payment authorization hold. This is not a charge. Your card will only be charged if a spot opens up and you are approved. If no spot becomes available, the hold is released automatically and no payment is collected.

​Please make sure to read the ticket option for details on drink inclusion.

​Street parking available in neighborhood and Liberty Station parking lots. (Somber Nights is not responsible for any theft or violations.)

​This is a private event, and photo and video will be taken on the venue premises.